dork!

so i'm not going to get all anxious and freak out over little things with this guy.  i'm gonna let things happen.  i'm not going to stress and try to read into every little thing.  i'm going to take things at face value.  i'm going to enjoy myself.  most importantly, i'm going to remain calm and have fun! :)

so he texts me tonite asking if he can call me (gotta love the 21st century).  i said sure and he called! :)

we talked for a little bit (probably about 20-30 minutes).  it was nice to talk to him.  my only problem is, sometimes, i don't know what to say.  i know i said i was going to remain calm, but i still get nervous.  nervous is different than anxious.  so i get nervous and there is a lapse in the conversation.  i don't know what to say next.  i don't know what to ask.

i feel like a total dork!

what is "safe" to talk about when you're first getting to know someone?