men are pigs!

ok, so i know that not ALL men are pigs, but i keep encountering the bad ones.  i was talking to this guy i met online.  we've been talking for about 3 weeks now.  he's been annoying me a little along the way (like when i got sick, and he had the nerve to ask me if i was making up being sick because i was really married and that was why i couldn't meet up with him).  anyway, i took a chance and met him today.  i had some time after my job interview (more on that tomorrow) and met him at starbucks.  i ordered my staple strawberry smoothie and rice krispie treat.  he ordered some kind of coffee.  we sat and talked.  it wasn't too bad.  in fact, i kinda had a nice time.  then it was time to leave because he had to go to work (he's a cop).  so he walks me to my car and wants to kiss me.  i kiss him (closed mouthed).  he leans in to kiss me again and tries to shove his tongue in my mouth.  again, my mouth stays closed.  we said goodbye.

i was thinking--what a freak!  i had told him i was looking for more than a hook-up (sad thing, but you've gotta tell guys that these days.  MOST guys are just out for sex).  i didn't think it was appropriate for him to want to make out with me in the starbucks parking lot in the middle of the day at the first meeting.

anyway, it gets worse!

he texts me and tells me that he wants to kiss me more.  i tell him that i don't want to make out with him until i know him better (i really decided to take it slow from now on with these guys i meet).  he has the nerve to write back and tell me that i have no sense of adventure!  wtf?

i was VERY clear from the beginning about what i wanted and didn't want.  i did nothing to lead him on or make him think differently.  i have a HUGE sense of adventure and i'm a very passionate person, but i'm saving all that for when i'm in a relationship with someone who gives a shit about me.  it just pisses me off that guys only think with their penis and will judge a woman on the fact that she wants to take things slow.

it ended with me telling him that if he didn't respect my wishes to go slow, then i wasn't the girl for him.  he didn't reply to that.  goodbye you perverted loser!